Psychologists have developed a set of rules that fathers must have in their families. In fact, these rules were before, but their number is not 18, but more than 18 thousand. However, these generalized rules help fathers to keep themselves in the same situation as they are in various situations and to avoid problems. So they are:
Everything that you say is great, middle, younger than yours. Do not procrastinate, even if your words are not of interest to you. If you listen less than the other, you will be upset that you have not been able to give him enough.
- repeat daily that your daughters are the most intelligent, beautiful and kind in the world;
- do not try to talk about what your girl's mother is saying;
- do not raise your voice high. If you do, you will become a father in the future. Do you feel sorry for the nerves and ask forgiveness?
- there are not many or less toys. If you ask for a new toy, take it away;
- every girl thinks she is a queen. Prove that to her and raise a young girl. It's a tough job, but the result is worth it;
- embrace her and embrace her. It's always your baby;
- do not resist if your daughter wants to help you do the work that the boys do;
- your daughter should know that her father can always protect her. In any case, protect him from any of his or her fault. The basis of the disagreements is that it is learned after the fault, and most importantly, it does not believe you;
- when talking about successes and failures, do not forget to say "we";
- the girls are delicate. Do not be surprised if he comes over to you when a problem comes up and does not tell his sorrow. This does not mean that you are a bad father;
- do not train your daughter as "delicate";
- you need to create some rules for your daughter's safety and happiness;
- the most important factor in the upbringing of girls is the motive and aspiration of the family head to become a good father. As you try to become a good father, your daughter strives to be a good girl;
- strive to commend your girl for every good job and to emphasize her good deeds. Believe me, this is very important for her;
- do not lie. The girls trust adults, especially the mother and father's words;
- do not force her to dress in the way you like. If she didn’t cross the limit, it is better not to refuse your daughter's desire;
- do not disclose the secret that your daughter told you.
WITH RELIGIOUS MARRIAGE IN QORASUV WAS LEGALLY AUTHENTICATED
On August 1-5, at the initiative of the Republican Council on Coordination of Citizens' Self-Government Bodies, the Women's Committee of Uzbekistan, the Scientific Research-and-Practical Research Center "Oila", the Republican Center for Spirituality and Enlightenment held an international conference entitled "We are against family prosecutions!". Family Relationships Month. Certain work is being carried out in Qorasuv city this month.
The town of Qorasuv is one of the border regions of Andijan and the neighboring Kyrgyz Republic. There are more than 9,000 families in the 10 mahalla's citizens' gatherings, where more than 34,000 people live.
Though there are not many families in our city, there are still many things to do with strengthening families. In particular, measures have been taken to ensure the sustainability of the families, who are on the verge of a distress in the city, the problems of re-registration of families with various problems, peace and harmony in these families. There are groups of people who have a great experience, respected by the people, working with troubled families. In this way, the problems and factors that lead to disruption of the family are studied. This, of course, will allow for systemic and addressing work with frustrated families in the future.
In addition, individual conversations with each of them, and their reconciliation, are being arranged to overcome the disagreements between the couple, the bridegroom, the bridegroom and the other members of the family. Such families include mentors from mahalla, mahalla activists, parents and grandmothers who have made pilgrimage trips. In general, the work being carried out by foster families is yielding good results. Over the next two months, 34 troublesome problems have been solved in the families of the elderly.
Particular attention is being paid to preventing the finding of finding evidence and preventing the finding of the ruling. It should be noted that in the past period of this year, 18 marriages of families living in the city have been legally registered.
Early, illegal, and racist marriages, as well as in the neighborhoods of Pamhtakir, Amir Temur, have been intensified in the prevention of women's crime. As a result, women's crimes have declined compared to the same period last year.
A woman who lives under name K. living in one of the city's mahallas has been abused by her mistress committed suicide by fraudulent money. The established Working Group analyzed this situation and analyzed the factors that made the situation. A woman who committed a crime was summoned and her community was affected by the community. It is clear that such cases could have a negative effect on women who have a tendency to commit crime and not do something wrong.
In the neighborhood, specific measures have been taken to address crimes such as suicide, suicide prevention, family-related values, promoting good traditions and traditions. In particular, the "Best Nanny", "The Most Bride", "Macro Parent", in particular, young couples, round-table discussions with the participation of young men and women, in order to achieve family solidarity and popularization of the best practices. . In addition, the work on raising children, preparing young people for family life, prevention of early marriages, organization of wedding, wedding and other family events will be further strengthened.
We need to further strengthen the broad public collaboration of the primary organizations, self-governing bodies, law-enforcement bodies, conservative organizations, and women's committees. That's what we can achieve.
Our goal is the same, ensuring the peace and tranquility of every family in our city and the satisfaction of every citizen.
Nargizakhon KHOLMATOVA,
Chairman of the women's committee of Qorasuv city.
The coyote, legged, and poet-writer was still waiting for the college to finish. It hurried his parents. Especially, his mother, Shafoat, fell asleep: "My cousins have already taken the girl, the bride is gone, and how old are they?
I did not work because the woman was the man of the house. What do I teach my daughter to do? If it's a home away from home, it's better to give it to the owner. "
When she told her husband what had passed her heart, she did not even think about it. When they finished college, they were thinking about transmitting it.
Thus, the dreams of Shoira to enter the university remain a dream. Two weeks after the college graduation, it was a wedding. The wedding was beautiful, as the parents were amazed. But six months after the wedding, her mother-in-law told her about the world of Shua'a:
"I've been dreaming about how beautiful she is, she is ill, she's a little sick, she's got a lot of housework, she's been sick for a long time since she was pregnant, my dear son, iodine deficiency, and vitamin deficiency. "If so, when would it be morning?"
The girl's parents heard the same thing. When they went to her daughter to tell their children that they were going to bring them home, they showed her that the prestige of the family was precious in the neighborhood, in the neighborhood. They regretted that he had been married to a woman who had been married without good requests. Even though the stinging stones, such as those who had been "hiding their illnesses from your sick women," sank into their hearts, they spoke respectfully to the queer. He said, "That's what happened, it did not happen". The stinginess of her fatherhood did not make it possible for her parents to go back to their homelands, because of their persistence.
Poor family life, early marriages, and mother-in-law's lack of sense of well-being have failed. Such a situation that is going to happen in our lives should be an example to each of us.
Parents need to focus not only on educating their children, but also on being spiritually and physically healthy. A girl who is not ready for a physically-equitable, unhealthy life can face many difficulties during the family's marriage, and sometimes it may become unhappy and dissatisfied with marriage. Therefore, we have to do everything necessary for the healthy growth of our children from childhood and to form healthy lifestyle principles in the family. Because our daughter will be a mother tomorrow, and her life will be born. She should not suffer in this process.
The parents who want to marry their daughters early, should not forget these things. We have to put an end to these unpleasant situations. Also, if we become aware of the situation in our neighborhood or in our family, our colleague, let's try to prevent this immediately and explain the negative effects of early life. After all, parents who do not realize that this is a mistake at the time will not regret it tomorrow, and their daughters will be unhappy.
Only when a woman is healthy can she be happy with her family, bring blessings to her family, and genuinely love her. This should be done by the head of the family - men and women, and the health of their daughters above all else.
Usually, most people are afraid to go to a dentist. Many years ago, when technology was not developing, dental procedures had a great deal of pain, and some of the patients' pain and frustration were observed to be painful. For this reason, a great deal of dental surgery is carried out and painless and easy treatment for patients is still available, although the dentist's view still fears people. So, what is being done today in the field of dentistry, what should we pay attention to in order to keep our teeth healthy and strong? This is our conversation with Barnokon Moyalinova, the teacher of dentistry faculty of Andijan State Medical Institute, the head of the Healthy smile clinic.
- Barnokhon, let's focus primarily on the factors causing dental diseases.
- Of course! There are many factors that cause our teeth degradation. First of all, do not strictly adhere to a healthy lifestyle. When eating, resting, taking care of your own health, it is not only your teeth, but also the entire organism. In addition, the teeth are healthier and dependent on hygiene. Everyone has their teeth cleaned every two days by mouth and at least once a year, whenever he / she visits the stomatologist. The factor of any disease is neglect. Our people have such a habit that when they are ill, they refer to a doctor. But in fact, it is necessary to see a doctor for preventative purposes. It is possible to prevent the teeth in the pit, or if the gums become swollen, if the tooth color changes.
- Does Disease Disease Generate Generation?
- In the past, attention was drawn to the teeth of the bride or groom. It is thought that dental diseases are transmitted from generation to generation. Indeed, sometimes young people with teeth get sick. The age at the age of 18 or 20 should not be less than the calcium level at which the overall health status is satisfactory at such age. I asked her father or mother to have her teeth, her teeth eroded early. Thus, the attention to teeth in this family has not been correctly corrected. Parents and grandmothers do not care about their teeth, their teeth care for their children, and do not teach them how to keep them healthy until the time of old age. Many young brides coming to us. A toothache can be painfully relieved by local methods. "Why did you do that?" Brides should also get permission from their mother to heal their teeth. In some mothers, do we say that we are old-fashioned, there are some notions that you can not touch the teeth during pregnancy? This kind of bid'ats, which is just beginning to be born, will bring the bride to the bride's drowsiness and become unmanageable. Treatments for the treatment are difficult. Parenting, mother-in-law should be aware that if the teeth are ill, then the teeth in the mother's womb develop after the birth. Only when the mother is healthy, the baby is born healthy.
- What advice should we follow so that our desires stay healthy and strong?
"We need to pay special attention to their hygiene to reduce problems with our teeth. It has been found that 800 million microorganisms are present in the smallest diet. If you clean your teeth regularly, the amount will be reduced by 100 times. In addition to washing teeth with toothbrush, it is advisable to clean the surfaces adjacent to adjacent teeth by means of special yarns (floss) and toothbrushes. The toothbrush should be cleaned with vertical and circular movements. When the mouth is opened, it is desirable to wash the chewing surfaces of teeth with horizontal movements. It is recommended to wash teeth 2 times a day: in the morning after breakfast and 3 minutes before bedtime.
- What changes have been done in the field of dentistry in our country in the past years?
We often exchange experiences with our foreign colleagues, and many news stories have been practiced. Of course, implantation should be emphasized. Previously, if we let artificial teeth to the clients, it would be difficult for people to make a long time ago. The slimmingness of the hair could not be counterproductive, and allergies were observed. Now implantation is taking place. No pain-free, harmless white-tones have been introduced, our new equipment has devices that control the root quality, and we use quality treatment methods.
Life is complicated. It is difficult to live without family life, without psychological support. If a couple is normally in the family, that is, when both husband and wife treat each other responsibly, they can easily deal with any problem, since we are disturbed daily or disturbed it is
Asaka district branch of the "Family" Scientific-Practical Research Center, the Women's Committee, activists of the mahalla and the public are actively working on the study of family relationships. There are many women working in different professions, as well as women who are referred to as exemplary family housewives. Each family has its own attitudes and lifestyles.
A series of events are being held to ensure the family's well-being, raising the responsibility of parents in upbringing children, setting family values, promoting the role of the family in maintaining peace and stability in society. For instance, meetings with representatives of family, who live together for more than 30-50 years, actively promote their children's love for the country, in the spirit of loyalty to the ideas of independence, actively involved in public affairs. Most of the rallies were organized in large neighborhoods such as Kayragach, Kujgon, and Kara Tepe to show their experiences to others.
Conducting spiritual-enlightenment meetings, including strengthening the Family Institute, including the concept of "Healthy family - healthy society" and "Family and State", has become a tradition. In the district there are full-fledged children who have been brought up in the district, and are now in their old age, the elderly and the elderly, who are in the care of their children.
Sometimes there is a lack of knowledge of family ethics, psychology, and disagreements among young people, the misunderstanding of each other, and the making of minor problems. In this way, consultations have been launched through activities such as "Family School", "Healthy Family Day" and "Healthy family - healthy society". The number of disputed families has dropped significantly.
Many women wanting to work, "I want to work," are involved in business, public affairs, clothing production, and factories. Many women in the home were provided with jobs.
In the "Every family-entrepreneur" direction, women's initiatives and organization are felt in their homes, where they are engaged in animal husbandry, poultry farming, farming, horticulture. Gulchehra aya Dadaeva, a resident of "Kayragach" mahalla, has four daughters. They are friends with each other. That's why families have the blessing. As soon as they reach puberty, young couples are almost ready to succeed. Their way of life, their involvement in their life, and their involvement in the work they do can also lead to a family breakdown.
With the help of our center, 94 families before the divorce were reconciled and the unhealthy environment in families was normalized in April-July. It has become a tradition to host a series of events in the neighborhoods. Every Wednesday of the week is marked as "Family Day".
Whether we want it or not, we will be in the heart of the family. We share warmth and affection for our loved ones. Mercy is reflected in our eyes, words, steps, and actions, because we are women!
Ominakxon IBROHIMOVA,
Head of the scientific and practical research center "Family" branch of Asaka district.
According to modern medicine, the newborn baby's ability to have a perfect intellectual foundation in the future will be eighty percent of births.
The remaining 20 percent of the post-natal post-delivery education depends on their work. It turns out that the child's identity is almost certain when he is still in his mother's body.
The spiritual and physical state of the future mother, her emotions go to the child, and if the woman is pure, dignified, and virtuous, these traits will be in the child as well. And there are many other roles in the mother's childhood, and no matter how much we talk about it, it is impossible to put an end to it. However, one can only say that today in our country people think of the reasons why maternal and child health, the role of women in family and society are important.
During the years of independence, Uzbekistan has been extensively working on the comprehensive protection of women's interests, the protection of maternal and child health, and the well-being of families. Legislative acts are adopted and consistent implementation of state programs. All of these are primarily intended to honor the woman as a mother, a successor and educator of the future generations, and to create the necessary conditions for her.
Strong family is one of the key factors of the spiritual image of our nation in the society, the essence and significance of the ongoing reforms, and the leading role of our chosen path to lighting.
When it comes to family matters, the woman often comes to our senses. Why is that so? Note that when people talk about their wives, they say "not my wife" or "my". For without a family it is not a family!
Marriage is a great event. It is not national, but universal. When our Prophet (PBUH) called for marriage and marriage, we see how serious our fathers paid to the question of the future bride and groom's ancestors, and the choice of the bride and groom. Especially, there is great wisdom in putting girls in this issue more and more seriously "exam".
Speaking of the woman today, we can imagine the happiness and the future of women who are confident in the future. Because of the fact that the birth of a healthy mother from a healthy mother, capable of educating well-educated mothers can only bring up the perfect people, strengthening the health of women, protecting the family, motherhood and childhood, raising a spiritually mature and physically mature young generation, the measures are being implemented consistently. It is even more pleasing that these efforts bring their positive outcomes.
In our country, serious attention is paid to family solidarity. We see that in some parts of the world, the moral and spiritual collapse of the society. In such a situation, it is a noble cause to fight for the high moral values of our nation, to preserve the spiritual well-being of our society.
A healthy child is born in a healthy family. The family can be called the golden trunk, which has embodied all the secrets of man, and it is a cradle of happiness. In particular, a symbolic school that shapes human beings is also a family. How wonderful it is to read and read his "books" and life lessons.
We should tell our young people that the family is sacred, that it is a great happiness to live a healthy life and that there is a blessing in peace.
Because, in the recent times, some of the global crisis in the western countries can not even be perceived in our lives. Unfortunately, parenthood, children, brothers, sisters, or those who have been brought up in a single family often have unusual relationships.
Today, some young people are less likely to be affected by the family and children's destiny. Those who divorce a minor offense, and only one child, are found among us, who avoid paying alimony legally. Would a child who is growing up with material shortcomings as if he did not have a parent today would be responsible for the family tomorrow? I do not think so.
First of all, let all children be happy to grow up in their parents' home. For that, we all have to fight for the strength of the family.
The health of human life and the well-being of others are, in many ways, a natural process. Our ancestors did not say that the husband does, feeds, and clings. In addition, the soil, in general, gives nature much value for humanity.
So, are we today preserving the nature, the environment and the purity of our minds? How do we contribute to that kind of good work? Below we will talk about these topics.
Human beings live in harmony with nature. In our lives, the things we need in our lives, the equipment and the clothes are actually the priceless product of our nature. But in the rapidly evolving world of our lives, human beings do not pay enough attention to the conservation of nature, the rational use of water and the various natural resources.
Let's not go far, let's talk about some unpleasant experiences we have in our daily lives. We know well that the elderly are told that the water is sacred from our childhood, and it is sinful to make it dirty. It's a shock to most people. That's why many try to keep the water clean. Unfortunately, there are some people who are surprised at their attitudes.
"In some neighborhoods of our city mornings, my body trembles when some girls and brides are sweeping the streets," says labor veteran Muharramkhon Hudoyberdieva. - Is not this girl or bride's parents heard that it is wrong to do this from her neighbor? Or if it does not act on its own, then the pollution of water does not meet any of the criteria of humanity, especially for the nation.
"I was passing through the streets in the morning," says the Chem Mahalla Citizens' Assembly in Andijan District, a specialist in working with women and promoting moral and spiritual values in families says I. Akhmedova. "A 15-16-year-old girl came out of her house and went back to the street and went back. There were not only bread dishes, but also fruit pans in the table. I stopped her and said, "Daughter, why do not you just dine in the dining room, and if you turn aside, the birds will eat it?" She did not hesitate to answer, but she did not go to her home. I knew that the environment in the family was not good, and that girl did not know what to do with the gun.
Yes, any of the above cases worry everyone. Despite persistent propaganda for the improvement of the dwellings, the cleanliness of the land, and the enhancement of the ecological culture of the citizens, the presence of such people shows that the work of ethics, ecological education and advocacy is insufficient.
The norms of morality and morality of our people should be in the heart of every citizen. In this regard, we should talk a lot to our young people, and give our children this childhood.
When a person seeks willingly or consciously to do what he intends to do or achieve, he will have the expected outcome. Everyone who wants to preserve nature, cleanse it, and cultivate the country, will be able to achieve the desired outcome, the prosperity of the country and the cleanness of nature. There is no place for illness when it is clean and clean.
Our people have long been fond of nature. Tree planting and gardening are the ancient values of the Uzbek people. It is our duty to maintain the continuity of this value. In addition, we need to teach our children the first look and feel of nature, the preservation of the natural vegetation, the animal world, and the responsibilities that they must play in preserving the environment. First of all, we should be an example.
MY MOTHER-IN-LAW IS MY MOTHER, MY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW IS MY CHILD
Each family is like a small country. He has his own rules. If you are a senior patron of the family, then your children will be brought up by their well-being, knowing the traditions of our national values, traditions and customs of the adults, and the sanctity of the traditions.
They are not indifferent to the upbringing of children and grandchildren who grow up and grow up in the family. The admonition and guidance of the elders were always important for young people to choose a model life. Sometimes you have to spend time in the meetings, in the streets, with the older, the rich, the well-off, the well-attended couples, the closely related conversations with the youth. Sometimes, their experiences can be used to reconcile families that are already on their way to divorce. The beauty of the Divine, the majesty, the superiority of the young, reduces the burden of the family heads who do not give up.
Sometimes, there are complaints from families that call on their husbands and wives to be fair. Our conversation with them is about compromise, mutual understanding and respect. Conversations learned from the findings that judgments often lead to disagreements, alcohol abuse, betrayal of the family, and prolonged exposure to family life.
I know a family well. The mother has seven children. It's like Farmonbibi in a favorite Uzbek movie. Rohat's mother, who worked hard married seven sons. His sons are very hardworking, old men and old men of the neighborhood. The bride is just as good as a sister. The reason is that this attitude stems from this hard work. Rahat's sister does not miss their life experiences. "In the family there is no place for celibacy or confusion, but it is a disagreement, and it does not mean that everybody is hurt by a fierce battle, not a dry word, but a kind words, vigilance, mildness, industriousness, It's important to be a good example for the boy and the girl, and if a parent does not direct the upbringing of their children, a new family will be ruined."
Rahat's sister is right. Kars has two hands. Therefore, learning the bride's family membership is more than just the mother-in-law. In one of the neighborhoods of the district, I would like to focus on another family, one of the most remarkable families.
A housewife, doctor of technical sciences and philosophy is Shahnozahon Sotvoldieva. I was shocked when she told me about her wedding day. Shakhnazakhon's mother-in-law, Gulsara's mother-in-law, who loved her as a daughter, helped her to finish her education in the capital, and had the patience and strength to look after the children. When we meet with young girls in the neighborhood and hold a roundtable, this professor will try to get as much time as possible and will not be tired of telling a bit about his family and mother-in-law:
"I think I'm a brilliant bride who has four sons and I am the third bride, and I graduated with a master's degree and passed the exam." She said that she was not ready for me at any time during my meal, and that I could not fulfill her husband's duties. He did not do so, but contributed to the success of the institute, his career as a professor of philosophy, a doctor of technical sciences, a professor of science, and his two daughters They are currently schoolchildren and have moved from a large courtyard to a separate home, but my mother-in-law would still help me if I were asked whether I was putting the science or family first, it is also a sacred place to give a great deal of attention to the woman, and to the happiness that your children are growing up, when they come to you, your eyes are cheerful, and your work becomes pleasure. My mother-in-law, like my mother, pours out her joy as my daughter, my joy and joy. We are just like sisters who are born with ovines. I am grateful to my mother-in-law for a long time that I have been able to endure my aggression and have a great bearing on my family's reputation. "
When I hear Shakhnozakhan's thoughts, I think, "Well, it's all brides and mothers." True, nowadays, all the girls who are married are given a perfect welcome. It is possible to live up to the warmth and comfort of the house, respecting its mother-in-law.
Once every girl has been married, the bride should turn into a "man of her own". Pipeline is obligatory. Birth of children can strengthen the family, preserve the family, relationship, respect, understanding of each other. A bride is a bride-groom, and the bride's mother-in-law accepts her mother-in-law as a family.
Muborak KHOLMIRZAEVA the head of the scientific-practical research center "Oila" in Buloqboshi district.
I have been married for 25 years. My husband and I especially enjoyed good relations with family.
Soon your sister-in-law got married and calmed down. We saw children one after the other. You are a daughter and I have a daughter. Thankfully, my husband died when we did not marry our children. My girlfriend agreed to make my daughter come to the bride so that she could not break the bond. Although I was not upset, I accepted the "honor of my spouse". My daughter did not bother me, she was crying, weeping, but still she married her son. At first, she lived better, more precisely, until my daughter got pregnant.
During pregnancy, she was very ill, she could not handle her housework, hated her family, and when she had problems with her health, she became a "coworker". Several times my dear daughter has brought my mother back to you, and we have no money for you. I send your treatments back home. "I think she's the bride, she's in the situation of my daughter." My daughter lost consciousness when she returned next day. I remembered, my thoughts frightened me.
Doctors say that blood has gone down, eating vitamins and eating more. "You did not eat at the time," I said. My daughter was crying, "Would I eat it?"
The woman is in a different position during her husband's presidency. My daughter was also frustrated with the scent of the fat. He hated that he would not eat any food and that he would not eat, and if he lay in bed, he would not "take up his sleep". Do not worry about the situation. I admonished her that "there will be misunderstandings in the family, and the family will be strengthened by patience". "Do not talk," I insisted. That's what my daughter did not say to me.
My first granddaughter was born and died. Then the second one. My daughter often came home and did not want to go. The yellow color is yellow, it's either hurt or I can not bring it home. So after that time, my daughter was still burdened. This time I took him to my home and took care of it. Hartgul-kyz-kizi was born healthy. But, look at the forehead, my daughter became disabled. There are serious problems with the liver. When I was told that her baby would be raised after birth, her family's attitude changed dramatically when my daughter heard that she was no longer trying to do it. My daughter's "craft", my son-in-law, and my daughter were beaten. I realized why he was so disabled. I did not dare to anyone, because I was guilty of murder, and I gave her a girlfriend. I did not fight with your girlfriend, just as you once did.
My daughter wanted to divorce her, saying, "I'm not going to serve my husband anymore." We are carrying a cargo, it is in my house. Thanks to the government, we have a disability pension. My granddaughter was a pretty girl, but he did not wake up to her father or grandmother.
Last year, my son-in-law married again, and soon he had a son. Life goes on. Sometimes, however, I feel guilty when my daughter becomes unhappy, disabled, and faces with my husband's only one liver. Would not there be days when I did not go in for a while, when I gave my daughter to a stranger?
I am writing these things so that all of us can take lessons from them. Notwithstanding the negative consequences of marital intercourse, it is rare to get a girl from a relative in Uzbek as "self-criticized, tested". But it is better to have a relative with a relative, and then to give a girl to a stranger and to multiply the number of her relatives rather than to put her back.
